Dua of Jibreel (as), Rasoolullah (saws) said ameen.
First ameen - for the one whose parents alive and old, but not attain forgiveness - lost, destroyed and cursed is that person. He didn't serve them, didn't earn their duas. Such an easy way to forgiveness. No-one can do dua for you like your parents. Two strong bonds from which dua accepted - blood and that for Allah's sake, but we're deviated in both. We just run after temporary happiness. Even see father face with love, full Hajj reward. If we live on other side of world, how can we do this? Great Door of Jannah to serve Father, but we only do it when they're on deathbed. If you disobeyed or upset your parents, you're cursed. Same if make your Sheikh upset.
Second ameen - cursed is the one who doesn't say durood when hear name of Rasoolullah (saws). No desire. Such a great name. Such an easy door - one durood and 10 rahmas descend. If start majlis without durood, no mercy. Hadith - recite durood, specific angel take it with rejoice direct to court of Allah and then this durood will make istighfar for him, ask for his forgiveness and become coolness for his situation. We have thousands of problems, so why don't we try to sit and do durood
So, two extremes. Attain easy doors of Jannah or destruction and cursed
Third ameen - cursed those that were given Ramadhan, but didn't attain it. Ramadhan, for which we make dua to attain 3 months before. How can we not get forgiveness, when so many opportunities in this month? It's not for dieting, but to be saved from hell. Such blessing on this ummah that we have this month, get so much reward, such a great door for Jannah. But we make excuses to fast, tablets, health etc - it's going to be difficult, but that's the point. Worship with enjoyment and no difficulty (like if itikaaf becomes a B&B, unlike difficulty from no shower, sweat smell, scratchy etc) is not proper worship. Hajj is difficulty, not holiday. Fast will give headache etc. More the hunger, better the fast. 3 Porotas, over-eating, indigestion, burping etc - not ibadat. Tahajjud has reward coz hard to get out of bed.
So, Ramadhan means difficulty, so stop running after ease. Majlis - leave home, shop etc, difficult, anguish. Some leave it, or come late. Father in majlis, but kids run out to chat. Kids should be our inheritors, benefit us in the grave. We're proud about their dunya, money-making machines, how about their zikr? Drag them to zikr Majlis. Friend of Allah will look after not just you, but your kids. True father takes kids to friend of Allah. Hadhrat Sahib has looked after 4 generations of families. Take responsibility for your kids, spiritual journey, if connect with Allah's friend, he will benefit 7 generations. They take hold of Quran (not nafs led, show off, like Hifz or to be imam).
Whole month of Ramadhan given to you, of which every second is opportunity for forgiveness, mercy raining down, but not a splash touched out? Person attained Ramadhan not from hunger, but from taubah, from salvation from hell. If didn't leave sins, didn't do salah, didn't improve life, didn't get rid of deficiencies, did look to kids, but same old life.
No tarbiyyah of kids, often coz don't even live with them! Can't do tarbiyyah like that. Even cow keeps child close, stops others coming close. We don't even know what our kids doing - just salah in masjid isn't piety. Father main duty is tarbiyyah of wife and kids. Final chance. Change your homes. Father tell off kids, so deen, mother pushes back, or vice versa. Kids want to do taraweeh, father says no coz wanna sleep. Final message of Ramadhan - Jannah or cursed life. Correct yourself. If not angry with kids, at least be upset with them. If they don't deen, you have to tell them. They don't do zikr? Even if remote, pick up phone and tell them off, say you're upset
We might not get Ramadhan again. Allah's mercy gives it, not our health. When kids come to zikr, you've done good job. Hadhrat Sahib did favour to us by helping our kids, but it's our responsibility. Words hurting you, the having affect. Ramadhan going, will suddenly be Eid. So, broken rights of, and done zulm on, wife, kids, relatives - ask forgiveness from all, then Allah's rahmah will come.
First ameen - for the one whose parents alive and old, but not attain forgiveness - lost, destroyed and cursed is that person. He didn't serve them, didn't earn their duas. Such an easy way to forgiveness. No-one can do dua for you like your parents. Two strong bonds from which dua accepted - blood and that for Allah's sake, but we're deviated in both. We just run after temporary happiness. Even see father face with love, full Hajj reward. If we live on other side of world, how can we do this? Great Door of Jannah to serve Father, but we only do it when they're on deathbed. If you disobeyed or upset your parents, you're cursed. Same if make your Sheikh upset.
Second ameen - cursed is the one who doesn't say durood when hear name of Rasoolullah (saws). No desire. Such a great name. Such an easy door - one durood and 10 rahmas descend. If start majlis without durood, no mercy. Hadith - recite durood, specific angel take it with rejoice direct to court of Allah and then this durood will make istighfar for him, ask for his forgiveness and become coolness for his situation. We have thousands of problems, so why don't we try to sit and do durood
So, two extremes. Attain easy doors of Jannah or destruction and cursed
Third ameen - cursed those that were given Ramadhan, but didn't attain it. Ramadhan, for which we make dua to attain 3 months before. How can we not get forgiveness, when so many opportunities in this month? It's not for dieting, but to be saved from hell. Such blessing on this ummah that we have this month, get so much reward, such a great door for Jannah. But we make excuses to fast, tablets, health etc - it's going to be difficult, but that's the point. Worship with enjoyment and no difficulty (like if itikaaf becomes a B&B, unlike difficulty from no shower, sweat smell, scratchy etc) is not proper worship. Hajj is difficulty, not holiday. Fast will give headache etc. More the hunger, better the fast. 3 Porotas, over-eating, indigestion, burping etc - not ibadat. Tahajjud has reward coz hard to get out of bed.
So, Ramadhan means difficulty, so stop running after ease. Majlis - leave home, shop etc, difficult, anguish. Some leave it, or come late. Father in majlis, but kids run out to chat. Kids should be our inheritors, benefit us in the grave. We're proud about their dunya, money-making machines, how about their zikr? Drag them to zikr Majlis. Friend of Allah will look after not just you, but your kids. True father takes kids to friend of Allah. Hadhrat Sahib has looked after 4 generations of families. Take responsibility for your kids, spiritual journey, if connect with Allah's friend, he will benefit 7 generations. They take hold of Quran (not nafs led, show off, like Hifz or to be imam).
Whole month of Ramadhan given to you, of which every second is opportunity for forgiveness, mercy raining down, but not a splash touched out? Person attained Ramadhan not from hunger, but from taubah, from salvation from hell. If didn't leave sins, didn't do salah, didn't improve life, didn't get rid of deficiencies, did look to kids, but same old life.
No tarbiyyah of kids, often coz don't even live with them! Can't do tarbiyyah like that. Even cow keeps child close, stops others coming close. We don't even know what our kids doing - just salah in masjid isn't piety. Father main duty is tarbiyyah of wife and kids. Final chance. Change your homes. Father tell off kids, so deen, mother pushes back, or vice versa. Kids want to do taraweeh, father says no coz wanna sleep. Final message of Ramadhan - Jannah or cursed life. Correct yourself. If not angry with kids, at least be upset with them. If they don't deen, you have to tell them. They don't do zikr? Even if remote, pick up phone and tell them off, say you're upset
We might not get Ramadhan again. Allah's mercy gives it, not our health. When kids come to zikr, you've done good job. Hadhrat Sahib did favour to us by helping our kids, but it's our responsibility. Words hurting you, the having affect. Ramadhan going, will suddenly be Eid. So, broken rights of, and done zulm on, wife, kids, relatives - ask forgiveness from all, then Allah's rahmah will come.