Kids going off track, sinning - we don't know what to do. We try hifz, alim etc, but doesn't work - they continue to sin, or get worse, and then waswas that this Quran made things worse. This disease isn't cured by ilm. Just like doctor says a certain disease can't be cured by a certain antibiotic. We then start blaming jadu, and we go to amils, "magicians" etc. Even dua of friend of Allah won't have effect.
Cure in Quran: "oh you who believe, don't follow shaitaan's footsteps". That's what we're doing - follow shaitaan step by step. Allah says shaitaan has become your boss. "Shaitaan will take you to abominable actions". You have to follow your leader, we follow shaitaan in everything, and he will never step back from misguiding you. Here comes the cure: "I have given My favour/grace/mercy on you" ... not salaah, hajj, zakat ... "instead of path/obedience of shaitaan, follow path/obedience of Rasoolullah (saws)". Then shaitaan's affect can't come in your home, no fitnah, no immodesty.
So, even in salaah, if not in sunnah way, shaitaan comes into it - eg straight lines, gaps between people. So any ibadat not in sunnah way is devoid of blessing and is done with shaitaan. Enter home with dua, else shaitaan enters - impure actions comes in, waswas, evil actions. Enter by giving salaam. Even if do loads of salah, zikr, but ONE action done against sunnah, shaitaan strikes. Drink water - if not sit, 3 times, bismillah, shaitan comes.
Example of crack in ceiling, that slowly expands and destroys ceiling. Same with deeds done with shaitaan - eventually will destroy you. Sin, looking at bad images at night, etc. Cure this immorality, immodesty with sunnah. Go to sleep - dua, right hand, else sleep like animal, no blessing.
One sajdah, one bit of Quran, done in sunnah way, full of blessing - you'll taste it. Our eating, drinking, inside, outside, all against sunnah, in footsteps of shaitaan. WE MUST FOLLOW RASOOLULLAH (SAWS) FOOTSTEP BY FOOTSTEP. Even going to toilet - stone/tissue, wipe front-to-back, then back-to-front, then front-to-back. Cut nails - right forefinger, rightwards, left small finger, rightwards. Face - sunnah beard (one fist), not shaitaan beard, which will call you to wrong, obscene images, immodesty, adultery etc, despite studying bukhari, muslim etc.
For every action, business, friends, relatives, enemies, follow sunnah. Impossible to be pure without sunnah. Head - bare, better is topi, best is imamah. So, different levels. Clothes - trousers don't cover you in sajdah, so wear shariah libaas, but best is sunnah libaas.
Rasoolullah (saws) - whoever follows me will love me. Else thrown back in our faces. If failing on sunnah, cracks in ceiling. We say "leave a few cracks". For real damage, we apply silicon etc, close all cracks, so no leak. Must do same for our deen, seal ALL cracks with sunnah - then your ilm will be noor, else waste. And yet we speak against sunnah, we sin in front of Rawdhah mubarak, and most cowardly group are the Muslims. Imam Hussain showed us cure before death, stuck to sunnah. Badr - angels descended with imaamahs. With sunnah, such help will come from Heaven to sort out tribulations of ummah. Not just long qunoots in Fajr, UNLESS we are also following sunnah.
So, no cure from amils, magicians, Quran recitation etc, but from Sunnah. Taleem to kids - enter house with salaam. Hadhrat Sahib, when child, wouldn't get food until given salaam to everyone. Parents gave tarbiyah. If enter house this way, no poverty can come. Recite durood, give salaam when enter. If eat, drink, buy, sell etc in haraam way, against sunnah, blood full of shaitaan. That's why zikr no affect, that's why so much be-adabi from mureeds (like saudi student who enjoys going against sheikh and getting scolded), unlike with our pious predecessors.
When son/daughter disobedient, look at what you're doing against sunnah, check EVERYTHING.
Kids going off track, sinning - we don't know what to do. We try hifz, alim etc, but doesn't work - they continue to sin, or get worse, and then waswas that this Quran made things worse. This disease isn't cured by ilm. Just like doctor says a certain disease can't be cured by a certain antibiotic. We then start blaming jadu, and we go to amils, "magicians" etc. Even dua of friend of Allah won't have effect.
Cure in Quran: "oh you who believe, don't follow shaitaan's footsteps". That's what we're doing - follow shaitaan step by step. Allah says shaitaan has become your boss. "Shaitaan will take you to abominable actions". You have to follow your leader, we follow shaitaan in everything, and he will never step back from misguiding you. Here comes the cure: "I have given My favour/grace/mercy on you" ... not salaah, hajj, zakat ... "instead of path/obedience of shaitaan, follow path/obedience of Rasoolullah (saws)". Then shaitaan's affect can't come in your home, no fitnah, no immodesty.
So, even in salaah, if not in sunnah way, shaitaan comes into it - eg straight lines, gaps between people. So any ibadat not in sunnah way is devoid of blessing and is done with shaitaan. Enter home with dua, else shaitaan enters - impure actions comes in, waswas, evil actions. Enter by giving salaam. Even if do loads of salah, zikr, but ONE action done against sunnah, shaitaan strikes. Drink water - if not sit, 3 times, bismillah, shaitan comes.
Example of crack in ceiling, that slowly expands and destroys ceiling. Same with deeds done with shaitaan - eventually will destroy you. Sin, looking at bad images at night, etc. Cure this immorality, immodesty with sunnah. Go to sleep - dua, right hand, else sleep like animal, no blessing.
One sajdah, one bit of Quran, done in sunnah way, full of blessing - you'll taste it. Our eating, drinking, inside, outside, all against sunnah, in footsteps of shaitaan. WE MUST FOLLOW RASOOLULLAH (SAWS) FOOTSTEP BY FOOTSTEP. Even going to toilet - stone/tissue, wipe front-to-back, then back-to-front, then front-to-back. Cut nails - right forefinger, rightwards, left small finger, rightwards. Face - sunnah beard (one fist), not shaitaan beard, which will call you to wrong, obscene images, immodesty, adultery etc, despite studying bukhari, muslim etc.
For every action, business, friends, relatives, enemies, follow sunnah. Impossible to be pure without sunnah. Head - bare, better is topi, best is imamah. So, different levels. Clothes - trousers don't cover you in sajdah, so wear shariah libaas, but best is sunnah libaas.
Rasoolullah (saws) - whoever follows me will love me. Else thrown back in our faces. If failing on sunnah, cracks in ceiling. We say "leave a few cracks". For real damage, we apply silicon etc, close all cracks, so no leak. Must do same for our deen, seal ALL cracks with sunnah - then your ilm will be noor, else waste. And yet we speak against sunnah, we sin in front of Rawdhah mubarak, and most cowardly group are the Muslims. Imam Hussain showed us cure before death, stuck to sunnah. Badr - angels descended with imaamahs. With sunnah, such help will come from Heaven to sort out tribulations of ummah. Not just long qunoots in Fajr, UNLESS we are also following sunnah.
So, no cure from amils, magicians, Quran recitation etc, but from Sunnah. Taleem to kids - enter house with salaam. Hadhrat Sahib, when child, wouldn't get food until given salaam to everyone. Parents gave tarbiyah. If enter house this way, no poverty can come. Recite durood, give salaam when enter. If eat, drink, buy, sell etc in haraam way, against sunnah, blood full of shaitaan. That's why zikr no affect, that's why so much be-adabi from mureeds (like saudi student who enjoys going against sheikh and getting scolded), unlike with our pious predecessors.
When son/daughter disobedient, look at what you're doing against sunnah, check EVERYTHING.