Lailatul baraat. To benefit, don't be on blacklist. No need for anything else
2 enmity. Pleased when people who did bad against you suffer. Revenge to extent they wronged you allowed, but better to forgive. Ask Allah, hajat salaah, if struggle to do this
3 disobey parents. Door to paradise. Do their khitmat. Not just live away, and attend janazah. Serve them, help them - better than any other ibadat. Only disobey if against shariah, eg divorce, but nicely
4 break ties with relatives. People won't go a masjid cause relative there. Solution, persevere with relationship. They fight or break, you join. Ask forgiveness if think someone unhappy with you, even to younger.
5 consume intoxicants. Drugs, alcohol. Death coming, awake yourself. Taubah.
6 shalwar, thobe etc below ankles. For men. For women, cover. Not other way around, like today.
Those off this list, do Dhikr, jannah compulsory. And destiny can change - make dua. Allah prefers non-fardh worship in solitude, with tears. Even moist eyes will give salvation. This is not night of lectures etc
10th May, 2017